Kindness

In my parenting journey, I have learned the value of positively reinforcing the right behaviors instead of constantly saying, "Don't __________." I find that I am continually reminding Cait to be kind with her words, her hands, her intentions, etc. I tell her that we treat the people that we love with kindness. I so desire for my kids to be forces of kindness in this world that is quite harsh at times.

I was recently impressed with the kindness of my new pastor's son and I found it noteworthy. I really love working with teenagers and I do hope to do so more as Steve and I get to find our place(s) of service in our new church. But as I observe the youth currently in the church, I've noticed a great deal of leadership and strong, servant leadership at that. I love that there will be opportunities for my girls to be teen leaders, it teaches so much. But what was so noteworthy about pastor's son was that he was able to carry on a conversation with me (and adult!) with genuine interest (he even pulled out his phone and showed me pics of a recent college visit) and he didn't seem embarrassed or rush in our interaction. He showed the same level of respect and patience with a 6 year old boy sitting at the table who offered him part of his lunch. I can only hope to raise my girls with such flexibility and gentleness of spirit.